Wednesday, 27 February 2013

Maternity Leave

Where the heck did the time go? Tomorrow marks my first official day of maternity leave - a day I have been anticipating and a little freaked out about for... oh, about 9 months. I spoke to another one of the moms at my birthing group who was on her first day of mat leave when I saw her last and she had the same anxieties. Thankfully, I am not alone. Dood even said that I shouldn't look at it as anxiety but as "nervous optimism". That guy always knows what to say.

The reason I am a little anxious "nervously optimistic" is because I haven't ever really been out of work. The one time I was out of work I had a job before the end of the week. I guess it was a wake up call that my work is too much a part of my identity.

I'm nervous that I will have too much time to think now. To worry about all the things that could happen at the end of this pregnancy, during labor, as a new mom. Thankfully I slept quite a bit this weekend and I didn't have time to think.

My plan for the next few days (if I don't go into labor) will be to sleep, eat, poop and repeat. I'm pretty much going to be an infant before my infant arrives. I'm not really making many plans. I do have a check-up with my midwife and a visit with a friend planned... but that's about it. The rest will come as it may. I started to make some plans and then I kind of slapped myself and realized that this is not the time to make any plans. This is the time for rest.

UPDATE
Day 1: I slept in until 10:00 and then went for a walk and got some groceries
Day 2:  Got up at 5:00 and rolled plastic bags, made muffins, brownies, and supper. Went for another walk and to the birthing class.
Day 3: Slept in until 9:00 and went for a long walk with Mr. Newman. Paid a visit to the midwife. All is well.

This maternity leave stuff isn't so bad after all.


Monday, 18 February 2013

Chicken Marrakesh + Chocolate Chip Cookies

Another recipe review!

I bought all the ingredients to make this dish last week but due to the doggie emergency (see previous post) I ended up not making this. What better day to try it than today.

The ingredients and instructions are super easy. Onion, garlic, chicken, carrots and sweet potato and a can each of tomatoes and chick peas. Throw in a couple spices and turn that sucker on and in a few hours you have a delicious nutritious meal.

I thought about taking a photo of the finished product but with a smell like that wafting through the house I plated, served and ate the meal within short order. My mom who doesn't even like things that are spicy (I'm talking a dash of pepper is too much) really enjoyed this dish. Dood said he wanted it to be spicier so I told him it would be better to add after cooking since I like it just fine. The chicken was so tender and the veggies paired well. I've added it to my book of favs.

Enough talking about it, here's the link. Try it for yourself. Just one note, I used my slow cooker and put it on low for about 8 hours and it was delicious. If you're in a bit more of a hurry, do the 4 hours like it suggests in this recipe.

Slow Cooker Chicken Marrakesh

On to the next!

Later this evening I was really thinking about chocolate chip cookies. Now, I have to tell you I am usually not someone who eats cookies. I'll bake them but Dood is usually the one who eats most of them. I've been thinking about cookies the last few days and since I had a bit of energy I thought I may as well whip up a batch of cookies using a recipe I found on Pinterest. My old recipe did not call for cornstarch but I was interested in this new recipe that did.

I like the cookies. I made a mistake though. Instead of one cup of chips I threw in the whole bag. It was probably more like a cup and a half and I think there is too much chocolate. I also expected that the cookies would spread a little more than they did. If I were to use this recipe again I might add another egg or a little more butter or something. Maybe less flour. I like when they spread out. That, or I could just spread them out before baking I supposed. In any case, they were quite tasty. They haven't even cooled and I have already had three and Dood has had two.

Here's the link:

Chocolate Chip Cookies

One other thing I did tonight was prepare some overnight oatmeal in the slow cooker. I thought since I had the thing still sitting on my counter from supper I may as well wash it up and make breakfast. It was really simple: two apples peeled and sliced. A layer of brown sugar (about 1/2 cup), a sprinkle of cinnamon, two cups of oatmeal and 4 cups of water. Don't stir it, just turn it on and let it do its magic. I obviously can't comment on how delicious this recipe is as it won't be ready until morning but it's difficult to mess up oatmeal in my opinion. That's another thing I have been wanting lately: cinnamon. I even asked my mom to make some cinnamon rolls for me. The mini ones that you can stuff a couple in your mouth at the same time :)

Is this what nesting is like I wonder?

Saturday, 16 February 2013

Doggie Emergency

Poor Mr. Newman.


We took Newman to daycare on Tuesday like we usually do since we had a birth class on Tuesday evening. That way when he comes home he's ready for a nap, not a long walk. So off I go up to his favourite place and drop him off. I spoke to the owner as I always do and she asked if I had met a particular dog that was there that day. I follow the day care on facebook and I have seen photos of that particular dog but I wasn't entirely certain if Newman had met this other dog or not. I told her I thought they had met but I wasn't sure. She said they would introduce Newman slowly just in case.

Now, at this point I had a bit of a red flag. Anyone would.

I asked what this other dog's issue was and she said that he's a little... and made the motion of a flip floppy hand.

At this point I should mention that I really love this daycare and I respect them very much. Newman loves them and has a great time when he goes. He is quite submissive and calm but loves to play. We don't have any issues with him at home, in parks, on walks, etc and he has never given us any reason to believe differently. He's a totally mellow pooch that loves to nap and snuggle and play and run. I like to call him well-rounded and anyone who has met him will agree.

Around two that afternoon I get a call and see that it is the daycare. My heart sank. It was the owner on the other end who said that I will need to come pick him up because there was an incident and Newman will most likely need stitches and antibiotics. WTF.

Dood came with me and away we went.

The pup that greeted us was not the same guy that I dropped off that morning. This one was sore and confused. I was then given the story. They were throwing a ball and Newman got it. This same dog I spoke of earlier either didn't want Newman to have it or wanted it himself and grabbed Newman by the chest and pinned him on his back. They couldn't pull this other dog off him. Two staff yanking and pulling finally freed Newman and the damage was assessed.

Newman came out of it when a toonie-sized hole in his chest plus another puncture near the open wound. He also had an opening near his ear, on his cheek and multiple deep scratches on his face and body. He was in pretty hard shape. I called our vet who agreed to take him right away.

Once we got out there the vet took one look and said that he will definitely need stitches. They brought him to the back to await sedation so Dood and I left the clinic to wait for their call. We weren't gone long when we just needed to go back. Newman was still on the table in surgery when we got there. I could hear the beep beep beep of his heart rate monitor from the waiting area.

The vet came out some time later and said that he is recovering well and that they flushed the wounds but it not only required stitches but also a drainage tube to avoid infection. The poor bugger. She then presented us with a number of boxes for antibiotics, pain killers, antiseptic gauze for cleaning, and dry gauze for the drainage. At this point I heard the guys in the back coming closer to the room Dood and I were in and I could also hear Newman's collar. He was recovering on the floor in the back and when he heard our voices he came barrelling out to find us even though he wasn't nearly ready to be walking. Eyes wonky and tongue out he came a runnin'. He calmed him by sitting with him on the floor and he stayed by our sides until we finished hearing the instructions from our amazing vet.

She told us that the smaller puncture on top went through to the larger wound. He required multiple stitches there plus one single stitch near his ear.

Chris took Newman back three days later to have the tube removed but he now has a hole where the tube used to be. The vet told us that it will heal as an open wound and to continue to clean it regularly and provide antibiotics.

As I write this Mr. Newman is laying on his bed having a nap before bed. We shared a pear and cleaned his wound and life is slowly getting back to normal. He goes back in about two weeks to have his stitches removed and to check on the healing of his wounds.

We had a good thing at the daycare. Newman loved it, they loved him. They really took good care of him. My concern is that this was a serious attack and if it had been a couple inches higher the other dog would have gotten his throat at which point I don't think he would have survived. It was scary, terrifying, unnecessary. I think that since they had an idea that the other dog wasn't quite right they should not have accepted him in the day care. That's number one. Number two is that introducing toys in a pack with unstable dogs is not such a great idea. It gives the dogs something to be possessive about which can bring on aggression. We still have a few passes left in my $230 pass that I bought a few weeks ago and I think once Newman is fully healed I will be requesting a refund. If they refuse (I'm really not going to push the issue) then I know one other person who takes his dog there who I can hopefully transfer the pass to. Dood and I agreed that we should not make a decision too quickly about the daycare but I think we both know what that decision will be. This was too close a call for me to bring him back. Neither of us want to see anything like this happen to him again.


I won't post a photo of his chest because I feel it is too graphic. This is one of the least serious wounds he suffered. He is wearing the shirt to catch anything that drains from his chest wound. It was washed daily and we had three shirts that we alternated to keep the area clean.

Saturday, 9 February 2013

Operation: Baby Shower (post-op)

Operation Baby Shower was a success!


I realized for the first time just how small my house is with so many people in my living room and dining room. Maybe I should ask Dood for an upgrade. Ha!



We had a great turn out and I don't think I will need to buy anything for this child for at least a year and anything that I do buy I have gift cards for. I was actually a little overwhelmed by all the support from my friends. Honestly, I did not expect to receive so many wonderful gifts. I told Dood a while ago that I didn't want to count on getting items as gifts because, since we are from out of town with little family around, we would likely have to do this on our own but boy was I wrong. I completely underestimated the generosity of my friends and for that I apologize. One more time I must say thank you.

There were some unique and creative designs that were created yesterday. I have included some of them here. The wishes also went over well and it really got people thinking. I have not read the, and I will be placed them in sealed envelopes as soon as I can remember where I put them.


Food-wise, holy moly there was lots. I ended up not needing to  do all the things I listed. The crowd favourite was the spinach dip and, of course, the Doody Balls both of which there is very little left over. I tucked away a few of my own personal stash that I am hoping Dood doesn't find before I get home. As I write this I am on a bus heading out of town for work. I won't be able to publish this until I get to a computer since I don't have the photos saved on my iPad.


Update: Photos added and published only about a week after I wrote the darn thing.

Friday, 1 February 2013

Operation: Baby Shower

OMG it's TOMORROW!!

I can't believe just how fast this pregnancy has gone. But at the same time I feel like I've been preggo forever! You know you are close to the end when the time for a baby shower rolls around and you've begun those baby classes everyone tells you that you need to attend.

This past week Dood and I went to our first Birth and Babies class offered by the local health region. I think I am going to enjoy it but I feel like the instructor just likes to hear her own voice some times. Maybe it's just the hormones.

Back to the task at hand: baby shower.

I'm throwing one for myself. Most of my friends are moms (some newer than others) so I didn't really want to ask someone to spend all the time that is required in putting off an event such as this. I've sent out the invites and got quite a few people RSVP through my website. Now that I have an idea of how many will be attending I have gotten to work. Today was spent shopping for food and supplies. Tomorrow will be spent finishing the food and doing a bit of cleaning. I'm one of those crazy gals who is super organized so I have a spreadsheet with tasks and who will be completing each of them. My feet are tired and I'm super sleepy but I still have lots to do.

Food:
Cupcakes (homemade)
Doody Balls (chocolate cheesecake bites)
Mini cinnamon rolls
Fruit and yogurt
Veggies and dip
Chips and guacamole
Regular chips
Spinach dip and bread

Activity:
Design a onesie (I bought a bunch of onesies and fabric paint)
Make a wish (one for each guest for each year. Write your wishes for the baby on the assigned birthday)

Favours:
"About Ready To POP!" soda and popcorn. I created these labels and put them on little bottles of Chubby soda. I originally wanted Jones but I wasn't about to find it at the two stores I checked. Then I gave up and thought Chubby cola is quite appropriate. I then got these baby foot print bags from the Bulk Barn and made some caramel popcorn to put in the bags I got from Wal-Mart. I love that you can get Christmas gift bags after Christmas for 75% off and they don't look like Christmas bags at all. They are actually wine bags and I got two for 25 cents. Not too shabby.

Decorations:
I used table cloths from the dollar store in the colors I chose as the theme for the shower and cut them length-wise. Then I used painter's tape and stuck them to the ceiling. Then in the centre I made a few tissue paper pom poms also from the dollar store. It hides the tape for the most part and I created them in the same colors as the table cloths. I think it looks pretty good. I also had some twirly things left over from another party that (ta-da!) is in the same two colors: lime green and blue. I really like this color combination so I have used it in the nursery and I thought, what the heck, I may as well create a color theme for the shower too. I originally planning to hang the onesies on a clothes line but I really didn't want to put a hole in my ceiling or wall so I just put them into a container that guests can go through to find the onesie of their choice.

Tomorrow I will be sure to take lots of photos and give you the low-down on all the goings on. I'll show you the finished decorations with links to the place where I got my ideas.

I am really looking forward to seeing the designs that people come up with. I did a practice one tonight and I think it looks pretty good. Honestly, it's for the fun of it and I'm going to make sure this child wears each one of these. I plan to also take photos tomorrow when people are done so I can remember who designed what. Since I have a few extra I will also design another one or two myself. I think I ended up with about 23 and there are 17 confirmed guests including myself. Maybe I will see if Dood wants to design one.

At this very moment I just remembered the foot bath salt a friend gave me for Christmas that is oh so good for my pregnant feet. I know, it's not just my feet that are pregnant but some days it feels like it is. Today is one of those days. I need to rest now to make sure I have enough energy for the day tomorrow. My goal is to not fall asleep and snore loudly (Dood reminds me of just how loud each morning) during the shower. One of my guests is my massage therapist/magical pain banisher. She is as magical as a unicorn farting rainbows. She agreed to give me my second treatment tomorrow after the shower. I am really looking forward to that.




I'm going to go soak my aching feet and fall asleep while trying not to choke on my own tongue. Pregnancy is beautiful but it ain't always pretty!